Bringing up the Delphi murders at a wedding reception was a huge mistake

And you see this all the time, where people get so nervous about saying the perfect thing at a big moment that they end up saying something totally off. It's like their brain shorts out. Christophercampbell is right that it's hardly ever meant badly. I've noticed it's usually just a mix of good intentions and bad timing, which is a pretty common human mess-up. We put all this pressure on special events, and sometimes the words just come out wrong.