App blocker timers beat website blockers for me, tried both for 30 days
I ran a little test on myself last month. First 15 days I used a website blocker on my laptop for Reddit and YouTube. Next 15 days I put app timers on my phone for the same sites. The difference was night and day. The website blocker was too easy to bypass, I just opened a different browser or used my phone. But the app timers on my phone, they actually made me stop and think before I got sucked in. Anyone else find that stopping the app itself works better than filtering the content?
...and that's the thing, it's like the friction has to be physical or it doesn't count. I noticed the same pattern with my morning coffee routine. When I just tell myself "I'll only check the news for five minutes" the phone is right there in my hand, it's too easy. But when I have to actually get up and walk to the other room to grab the tablet, I end up just making my coffee instead. It's that extra step of moving your body that makes your brain go "wait, do I really want this right now?" The timer on the app is like a wall you have to climb, but the website blocker is just a sign that says "don't go this way" and you just walk around it. I think people underestimate how much our brains need that physical break to actually change the habit.