brian865•2d agoOG Member

A simple trick I found for keeping conspiracy talk from derailing a normal chat

I used to just shut down when someone brought up wild stuff like flat earth or secret lizard people at a party. Now, if it happens, I ask one question: 'What's the simplest piece of proof that would make you change your mind?' It forces the talk to be about proof, not just stories. I started doing this about six months ago after a bad barbecue in Austin. It doesn't always work, but it shifts the focus. What's your go-to move when a casual talk takes a weird turn?

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terryrobinson2d ago

That's a solid move, honestly. My uncle once tried to convince everyone at a family dinner that birds aren't real. The whole table just went quiet for a full minute before someone asked for more gravy. Sometimes the best reply is just pure, awkward silence.

jenniferb901d ago

That "full minute of quiet" is the perfect family dinner reaction! Your uncle's birds aren't real theory is the kind of statement that just kills all conversation. Someone asking for more gravy is the only possible move, because what do you even say to that, @terryrobinson? It's like the brain needs a full reboot. Awkward silence isn't just a reply, it's a survival skill for those moments.