I used to think giving advice was about having the right answer
I was talking to my neighbor, Mike, about a noisy HOA meeting, and he said, 'Sometimes the best advice is just to listen for five minutes before you say anything.' That stuck with me because I always jumped in to fix things. Last week, I tried it when my sister was stressed about her kid's school, and I just asked questions instead of giving my fix. It actually helped her figure it out herself. Has anyone else found that holding back your own solution works better?